The Quest for the Perfect AI Conversation Partner
Ever since ChatGPT’s Advanced Voice Mode launched, I’ve been on a mission; where’s the competition? Where’s the AI that can simulate a real, natural conversation to help me practice English, refine my speaking skills, and get real-time feedback?
Google Gemini? Tried it. Wasn’t impressed. It kept forgetting details mid-conversation. (Though I’ve heard updates are coming; stay tuned for a follow-up.)
Then, over the weekend, I stumbled upon Sesame AI: a research project (not a product, not a sponsor) that blew my mind. It wasn’t just smart; it felt human.
So, I decided to test it against ChatGPT : which one delivers a more natural, engaging conversation to help you speak English fluently?
The Experiment: ChatGPT vs. Sesame AI
Meet Miles—Your Quirky, Conversational AI Friend
I fired up Sesame AI and chose Miles as my conversation partner.
- Me: “Hey, I just moved to the U.S. and feel disoriented. How do I meet people?”
- Miles: “Ah, a fresh start in a new country. That’s a big leap. Sometimes the best way to get your bearings is to just hop in and see what’s what.”
- Me: “What does ‘hop in and see what’s what’ mean?”
- Miles: “My bad; that was vague. What are you into? Coffee? Books? Sunshine?”
- Me: “All three, actually.”
- Miles: “Perfect! Coffee shops, bookstores, parks—those are built-in conversation starters. Next time you’re at a bookstore, strike up a chat with someone browsing the same shelf.”
“Then, we role played a bookstore scenario; Miles suggested playful openers like:
- “Those philosophers aren’t light reading; tackling consciousness today?”
It felt organic, spontaneous, and real; like talking to a funny, slightly awkward friend.
ChatGPT: Helpful, But… Robotic
Same question to ChatGPT:
- “Join local clubs, attend networking events.”
Fine advice, but dry.
Then, I asked for a bookstore conversation starter:
- “Hey, I noticed you’re checking out Bergson. Have you read much of his work?”
It was logical, but stiff, like reading from a self-help book.



The Verdict: Which AI Wins for English Practice?
Criteria | Sesame AI | ChatGPT |
---|---|---|
Conversational Flow | Feels human, quirky, natural | Structured, slightly robotic |
Practical Advice | Same core tips, but delivered conversationally | Direct, but less engaging |
Language Feedback | Minimal (research project) | Detailed, corrective |
Use Case | Casual, immersive practice | Structured learning & feedback |
Sesame AI wins for realism, it’s the closest I’ve felt to a natural conversation. But ChatGPT is better for corrections and structured learning.
A Personal Story: How AI Helped Me Overcome Social Anxiety
One of our Word-Flux team members (who prefers to stay anonymous) shared this:
“When I first moved abroad, I was terrified of speaking. My accent felt heavy, my sentences clumsy. Then I started using AI conversation simulators, roleplaying job interviews, small talk, even arguments. Slowly, my confidence grew. Now, I can walk into a room and speak without overthinking.”
That’s the power of deliberate practice, whether with AI or real people.
Actionable Tips to Improve Your English Conversations
- Use AI for Roleplay
- Simulate real-life scenarios (job interviews, first dates, debates).
- Try Sesame AI for casual flow, ChatGPT for feedback.
- Practice Spontaneity
- Don’t memorize scripts; train your brain to think in English on the spot.
- Record & Analyze
- Listen back to your tone, pauses, and fluency gaps.
- Join Real Conversations
- Find language exchange partners (Tandem, HelloTalk).
We Want to Help You Succeed
At Word-Flux, we’re obsessed with helping you master English, whether for wealth, relationships, education, or personal growth. Struggling with English conversations? Discover how AI like ChatGPT & Sesame AI can help you speak naturally. Tips, comparisons & actionable steps inside!

Word-flux Cheat sheet
🎭 1. Roleplay One Scenario a Day
Simulate one real-life conversation daily using AI (e.g., bookstore, job interview, first date).
→ Identity: I’m someone who practices real-life English daily.
🗣️ 2. Speak, Then Listen
Record yourself speaking for 2 minutes, then replay to catch tone, fluency, or pauses.
→ Identity: I’m a speaker who learns from my own voice.
🤖 3. Use 2 AI Modes Alternately
Alternate between Sesame AI for casual fluency and ChatGPT for structured correction.
→ Identity: I’m a balanced learner who trains both flow and form.
💬 4. One Spontaneous Response per Day
React to a new prompt without planning—train your brain to think in English.
→ Identity: I’m someone who can think on their feet in English.
🤝 5. Join One Real Chat Weekly
Use Tandem, HelloTalk, or a Meetup group for at least one real conversation per week.
→ Identity: I’m someone who connects with others in English.

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